Sonja Tobey
Clergy and Ministry Coach
Certification
I am currently working on my Professional Certified Coach credentialing.

Accomplished ministry professional familiar with ministry and church organization. Skilled at coaching churches and clergy through conflict, mediation, times of transition, and board leadership. Known for creative problem solving.

23 Years of Ministry Experience

Clergy

Oklahoma Conference United Methodist Church
2000-06 – Current
  • Serving in location church in the conference since June 2000
  • Coach clergy and churches in conflict transformation and communication skills in conflict.
  • Work with churches and staff through mediation process.
  • Clergy coach for greater productivity and career fulfillment.
  • Provided leadership development training to churches and districts.
  • Coach churches and clergy on simplified accountable structure of leadership boards.

 

Current position – Lead Pastor

St. Paul’s United Methodist Church
Lawton, OK
2018-06 – Current
24 Years of Post Secondary Education
Phillips Seminary
2011-06 – 2015-05

Doctor of Ministry Church Leadership in Homiletics

Phillips Seminary
2002-01 – 2006-05

Master of Divinity Theology

Southern Nazarene University
1998-08 – 1999-12

Bachelor of Science Organizational Leadership

Certifications

Simplified Accountable Structure Coach Certification | 2021-08

Transitional Intentional Interim Ministry Specialist Certification | 2016-08

Specialized Training

Clergy Coach Training | 2022-10

Lombard Mennonite Peace Center, Clergy Clinic in Family Systems (Conflict Management), Lombard, Illinois 2015-2016
Lombard Mennonite Peace Center Mediation Skills Training Institute, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Aug 2015

Critical Incident Stress Management Training, Newton, Kansas Feb 2008

Skiills

Public speaking

Volunteer Management

Operations management

Training and Development

Active Listening

Written Communication

Individual and. Group Coaching

Personal

Sonja sees her calling not only to the local church, but beyond by helping clergy and ministry professionals become more effective and confident in ministry.

Sonja is married to Mike and together they have three grown children – Garrison of Oklahoma, Briana of Oklahoma, and Chelsea of Spain